Showing posts with label serious. Show all posts
Showing posts with label serious. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 24, 2023

She has a name now.

 

Amore Joveah Wiggins
born 2006, died c. 2011, found 2012, identified 2023

I don't know about you, but I've had this case in my mind for quite a while.
And I don't know why, but it still seems unreal that this poor innocent child, a little girl who had her life stolen from her at a tragically young age, now has her name back.

She was formerly known as the "Opelika Jane Doe". 

I remember first finding about her case through a YouTube video made by the now-deactivated channel "Cayleigh Elise" (reuploaded here). I have no idea why her case particularly stuck with me, but I mean... any true crime case involving a murdered child just haunts me in particular, and especially if that child suffered a horrible, tragic life of abuse before being killed.

Her remains were discovered on January 28, 2012 - the day I turned twelve years old. It's chilling to know that while I was celebrating another year on this Earth in a stable home with caring parents, this little girl would be discarded like trash by people who were (as far as we all knew at the time) supposed to care for her, never to see another year in the world.

Her death was determined to be a homicide and, based on the state of her remains, it was believed she died between the summer of 2010 to 2011. She was discovered to have been abused a great deal, having been malnourished and suffering an injury in one of her eyes that left her blind. The eye injury in particular was of key interest since it should have been very distinct and anyone who knew the girl would have likely been more able to identify her based on this detail.

The problem was, nothing would really come of this case for about four years after the little girl was discovered. 
In 2016, there was a light of hope in the case: an employee at the Greater Peace Church came forward with photos showing a child resembling the Opelika Jane Doe. This child appeared in photos taken during a Vacation Bible School session in 2011, and she bore quite a jarring resemblance to the Jane Doe. She appeared to have the same eye deformity as the Jane Doe, but unfortunately, the church employee did not remember her name. The child reportedly had an unkept appearance and kept to herself, which supports the investigators' findings of the Jane Doe being malnourished and neglected. Though we now know the Jane Doe's name, it is still unconfirmed whether she is indeed the same child in these photographs.

In late 2022, after several years of DNA testing and releasing facial reconstructions to try and identify Opelika Jane Doe, investigators were able to narrow down several locations where she could have been from, leading to them tracking down her father. He was enlisted in the Navy though was born and raised in Opelika. When he was notified of his daughter's death, he apparently didn't even know who she was or who her mother was.
But just last month (December), Opelika authorities found the child's biological mother. She was a native of Norfolk, Virginia, and gave birth to a daughter in January of 2006. She named her daughter "Amore Joveah Wiggins".
In 2009, legal and physical custody of Amore was given to her father and his new wife, and visitation rights from her biological mother were suspended. 

Despite never enrolling Amore in school or even reporting her as a missing person, her father and stepmother still received child support from her biological mother. The father and stepmother have since been arrested for felony murder and failure to report a missing child.

Amore's case still remains under investigation, including her relationship with her father and stepmother as well as what exactly happened to her in Opelika.

Take one more look at this precious, innocent child.

Her mother clearly loved her. She looks no more than three years old in these photos (the age when she would have been sent to her father and stepmother) and appears happy and healthy.

Even her name means "love".

She would have - no, should have turned seventeen years old this year.
She should have been in her junior or senior year of high school, ready to go on to college if she wanted.

Her mother must have waited so long for her to turn eighteen, when she would have been able to reunite with her mother if she so chose to.

Her mother diligently paid child support despite being estranged from her spouse and prevented from seeing her child due to the custodial arrangements.

Amore's mother loved her. She kept and willingly showed all the documents related to her, and remembered her name nearly eleven years later.

Rest in peace, Amore Wiggins.

May her beloved mother find peace and solace.

There is a reason I follow true crime, and that is to see justice given to those who tragically lost their lives as well as those who have otherwise seemed to vanish off the face of the Earth.

Cases involving children unnerve me the most.

Children deserve a stable home with loving, supportive parents and friends, but unfortunately, that's not always ideal.

These children could have grown up to potentially become someone who'd be able to make a difference in this world, but their lives were snuffed out far too soon.

In recent years, I've seen a lot of breakthroughs in decades-old missing and murdered people's cases. The Boy in the Box case has also stuck with me for a while, and he was identified just last month (December). There are quite a few other cases I hope will be solved, including those that have been deemed unsolved cold cases: the murders of JonBenet Ramsey, the St. Louis Jane Doe, and the disappearances of Timmothy Pitzen, Anthonette Cayedito, and Relisha Rudd, to name a few. Heck, Joseph Zarelli (the Boy in the Box) didn't get his name back until 65 years later. Who's to say that technology will be further developed in the future which will enable us to finally solve these cases?

Friday, July 22, 2022

Why I don't use DeviantArt anymore

 I don't even know if people out there have noticed I happen to have (well, more like had) a DeviantArt profile, but I guess I'm about to point it out anyway.
Granted, I won't put a direct link to my profile here, but who knows, you could probably find it just by a Google search or two.

Anyway, if you did happen to find my profile, you'll probably notice it's... well, dead. I haven't touched the account since early/mid-2017 (I think), yet here I am in this post pointing out its existence. So what's stopping me from logging back into the account, right?

Well, a handful of things.

 DA rehauled their whole layout back in like, 2020, or something; I remember they called it "Eclipse". I don't know, something about this new layout turns me off???? Again, I don't know how to explain it. I obviously used the site a while before Eclipse was implemented, and I remember liking the previous layout. I think there are even quite a handful of DA users (former ones probably, too) that don't like the Eclipse layout as well. I remember reading somewhere that Eclipse messed up the way you were able to customize profiles using the old layout. Knowing the distaste for Eclipse, it probably bugged out other features as well.

 DA is notoriously known for the weird, fetish-y content that a lot of artists post. Now, I'm not one to judge what you should/should not like, no matter how strange it is, but in my opinion, it's a different story when you're openly putting it on a platform where it can be readily accessed... especially by minors.
It just... really annoys me when I'm browsing DA for some regular, wholesome content when I suddenly find fetish art (or a whole entire GALLERY) in the "suggested collections"/"deviations you might like" section. I know there are people out there who are probably going to say, "why not just ignore it?"... well, I've tried! As far as I know, there's no way to just, like, block a certain artist or anything so their deviations don't show up in your feed (then again, I haven't been on the site in ~5 years so who knows, they might've added that feature in, I don't know).
From what I remember, the overall moderation on DA is kind of trash as well, so even if you report a deviation/artist, they're not very likely to get banned or anything.

 Quite a handful of DA users just... don't sit well with me. Now, I'm going to try to not name names, and I don't want to assume anything; for all I know, some of these users probably had no ill intentions interacting with me. But I don't know, these were like, men in their 20s/30s messaging and asking for art requests from me, who was around 16 going on 17 years old at the time. Take that with a grain of salt, I guess. One of these guys (the one who asked me for two separate art requests) actually added me on Facebook (I had - maybe still have? - my other social media profiles linked on my DA profile, which, looking back, I really shouldn't have done that being a minor). Another guy started a private conversation with me and asked for my actual name/age. Before I added my socials to my DA profile, this guy tried to ask for my socials and thought it was "strange" or something when I said I didn't like using social media that much.
Besides these interactions, there are also just quite a handful of trolls who just post deviations/comments/send messages just to get a rise out of other people.
Again, take this all with a grain of salt. But I've seen enough horror stories of minors interacting with fishy people on the Internet to know that it's better safe than sorry to keep my guard up having a public social profile and all.

 Franky, I was just too nice on the site. I hinted toward this in my previous bullet point, but I allowed people to ask me for art requests, and I even mentioned I would draw anything (as long as I was comfortable) for people completely for free (but I was okay with payment/tips in the form of DA points). Not a wise move, I know. But again, I was a minor who didn't know better.
At first, I enjoyed just making artwork for people (mostly because I was asked to draw their own characters which I found interesting), but eventually, I became overwhelmed with requests. All for nothing, save for a few points one person decided to give me in return for finishing their request. The thing was, I wanted to fulfill people's requests. I said I was okay with doing them. But as a high schooler at the time, certain classes demanded more of my time and I was unable to devote much time to my hobbies (especially creating art). Yet I didn't want to disappoint anyone, so I said I was open to pretty much anything from anyone... I don't know, maybe I just wanted to have friends and I wanted to show them how great I could draw.
This is inevitably what drove me off the site. I couldn't handle all the requests, keeping up with random conversations in the comment sections of my deviations/DMs, and I just overall felt burnt out with drawing as I never could find the time to even do it. I chose to ditch the site in early 2017, never to officially log in again.

I don't know if I could ever bring myself to return to DA. Admittedly, I'm a bit anxious to see how visitors to my profile will react to my sudden return after such a long disappearance, but even if I explained myself, I don't know if I see myself using the site as actively as I did long ago. Most of what I draw nowadays are sketches, not really fully-lined, colored works. As of writing this, I'll be graduating college by the end of this year, and I'll be student-teaching this semester (kind of like a teaching job leading up to certification/full-time work). So it's safe to say I'm still fairly busy. Therefore, I might just end up logging into the account and deactivating it for good at some point. However, while I still have access to the account, I plan to just screenshot and share everything I've uploaded on my other, more active social platforms before deactivating the whole thing.
A year or two ago, I actually created a brand new DA account (but not actually using it) as if I was planning on returning to the site and starting all over, but I was still debating whether to just use my old account or make a whole new account. Clearly, you can see I've just decided to drop everything and settle with deactivation in the future.

Well, I don't know what else to say. If you've seen my DA account and were wondering where I've been this whole time, I hope this post answers everything. DA was part of my childhood (I've had my account since 2011, I think), but nowadays, I find it has changed for the worse. I'm much more active on other sites, anyway, and I honestly don't really care if people are mad over my absence and stances on DA now. 

I've seen a lot of people making a mass exodus from DA for similar reasons anyway. I was inspired to make this post thanks to them.